• Despite the dark atmosphere, Morticia and Gomez Addams are the epitome of romantic love, constantly expressing their overwhelming affection for each other and defying the stereotype of the unhappy couple. The Addams Family.
  • Their shared love of all things creepy and whimsical allows them to be completely themselves with each other, developing a strong and unique bond that is accepting and liberating.
  • Morticia and Gomez’s openness, trust, and generosity towards each other create a deep bond, making them a strong and healthy couple who serve as excellent role models for their children and the rest of the Addams family.

The dark, gothic atmosphere surrounding the Addams family is truly one of a kind, as evidenced by the creepy (and beloved) family’s warm reception in pop culture, from its origins in 1984 to modern stories still exploring the interesting relationships between family members. They all pride themselves on enjoying the evil and the strange, especially Morticia Addams’ parents (Caroline Jones) and Gomez Addams (John Astin). But one unexpected aspect of the Addams parents’ relationship is the strangest and strangest – their extremely romantic behavior towards each other. The most consistent thing about Morticia and Gomez Addams’ portrayals over the years has always been their healthy passion for each other. Despite the dark atmosphere, Morticia and Gomez are the epitome of romantic love.

In addition to their gothic aesthetic, the darkly romantic duo also has their roots when it comes to romance; in fact, they can’t seem to keep their hands off each other, and they don’t hesitate to express their love publicly and overly affectionately, no matter who sees them. Whether they’re dancing a rhythmic, sensual tango or gazing at each other with long, knowing glances, Mr. and Mrs. Addams enjoy each other’s company to an almost laughable (and certainly enviable) degree. Even after years of marriage, they keep their romantic life fresh and vibrant.

So what’s the secret? How do Morticia and Gomez remain role models in romantic love? One would expect their devotion to evil to bleed into their marriage, but oddly enough, they are one of the healthiest romantic couples in television history. Considering the fact that the image of dysfunctional families and marriages is pervasive in the media and especially in comedies, Morticia and Gomez challenge the stereotype of the unhappy couple – much of their humor surrounding their relationship stems from how over-the-top their love is for each other. to friend. there really is another one. And this healthy connection they share mainly stems from the openness and sincerity in their relationship.

The Addams Family

Crooks plan to rob an eccentric family with the help of an accomplice who claims to be their long-lost uncle.

Date of issue
November 22, 1991

Director
Barry Sonnenfeld

Throw
Anjelica Huston, Raul Julia, Christopher Lloyd, Elizabeth Wilson, Christina Ricci, Judith Malina

lead time
99 minutes

Morticia and Gomez are all about love, despite the disgusting aesthetics

Morticia and Gomez’s ability to be completely and utterly themselves with each other allows them to love each other so openly and completely that it doesn’t even occur to them to try to hide their true selves. Their shared passion for creepy things gives them something in common, but it’s also a liberating aspect of their lives: they can live in a huge creepy mansion, thrive in a Gothic horror-themed living space, and develop a strong interest in dabbling in the occult with their children. As they feed each other’s passion for all things dark and spooky, their passion (and appreciation) for each other grows. Neither of them ever feels the need to hold back what they love, and given that most of their interests are on the scary side, they’re truly perfect for each other—neither of them need to pretend to be “normal.” “when they know they will be fully and unconditionally accepted.

Because of the mutual love and respect that Morticia and Gomez have for each other, they set stellar examples of how to treat others, making them great role models for their children, Pugsley (Ken Weatherwax) and environment (Lisa Loring). Although their lifestyle is unconventional, their interactions with their children clearly demonstrate deep love. Even extended Addams family members such as Larch (Ted Cassidy) and Thing are treated with sincere love. Although Wednesday and Pugsley do not always show the utmost care for each other (Wednesday is known to show some disdain for his brother, to the point of potentially very serious bodily harm), they show affection for each other in a uniquely Addamsian manner. way.

In contrast, Morticia and Gomez’s interactions with the non-creepy community around them clearly show the lack of understanding between the two worlds. Although Addams’ demeanor is usually very pleasant (if creepy) in the eyes of outsiders and guests, outsiders are often too scared to contact the Addams family in person—for a variety of reasons. Very few, if any, characters outside the Addams family circle are able to appreciate their dark aesthetic and morbid humor, which makes Morticia and Gomez’s shared passion a special part of their relationship. Since they will always have the opportunity to spend time with each other, Morticia and Gomez are usually not too bothered by rejection from strangers. If anything, it only deepens their love and appreciation for each other.

Morticia and Gomez aren’t “normal” and that’s why they work

The Addams Family
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Morticia and Gomez not only love the same things; their shared love of the dark and whimsical gives a certain freedom to their lives—a freedom that extends to every area of ​​their relationship. They can be themselves with each other without worrying about scaring the other away, and this disregard for keeping up with “normality” (as defined by the outside world) extends to every interaction they have, allowing them to express themselves fully, regardless case. Even the mundane moments of their daily lives are enriched by this freedom: every time Morticia and Gomez appear on screen together, they are overcome with passion, turning any ordinary day into a new adventure for them.

Their excitement to be with each other, two halves of a whole, is expressed through constant support for each other and overly corny romantic gestures – and neither of them tires of dancing. They are not shy to express their love, and they are not the least bit shy about expressing their love openly in front of others. It doesn’t matter who’s around: Morticia and Gomez will always have hot eyes for each other, for sure. Even in the Netflix series Wednesday, which shows their daughter acting somewhat annoyed by their displays, their obvious sexual tension is never considered a problem for the couple and they are not embarrassed by it. They are always drawn to each other, and the validity of their love is never questioned by either of them.

Even the way they talk to each other shows their constant excitement and joy – it’s not every day you find the love of your life like they do. While Gomez often showers Morticia with compliments, knowing exactly what will make her practically melt in his arms, the slightest sudden movements of Morticia make Gomez’s eyes widen every time. Not to mention his reaction whenever Morticia speaks French and smiles at his excitement. They give each other pet names: Morticia coos “cara mia” and “querido” and Gomez swoons and replies “cara bella” and “querida” back. Morticia and Gomez’s love for each other (and their excitement for each other) knows no bounds..

The Addams Family grows stronger through their love for each other.

Even apart, Morticia and Gomez speak of each other with love and praise. Gomez in particular will involve his wife in conversations with others so he can talk about Morticia and how much he loves her. While other TV couples in comedies and other films (and, unfortunately, in many real-life relationships) take the opportunity to beat up their significant other behind their back (all in the name of mean-spirited comedy), the Addamses go the opposite way. Their comedy is positive rather than negative, as the humor comes from everyone else’s reaction to their over-the-top declarations of love. You’ll never see Gomez make an “I hate my wife” joke, and you’ll never hear Morticia complain about her husband’s shortcomings. They are not a toxic couple or a dysfunctional couple; they’re funny because they’re so head over heels, and that kind of comedy feels a little warmer.

This juxtaposition of an ordinary sitcom couple with Morticia and Gomez Addams further emphasizes their openness to each other. Both know that their partner will never talk bad about them behind their back, so the level of trust between them is astronomical. They always tell each other the truth and expect the truth in return. Their relationship thrives primarily on this trust, as well as their openness, honesty, and caring: showing each other generous affection without shame is an invaluable part of their relationship, and the consequences of this acceptance are far-reaching. The Addams Family.

Morticia and Gomez’s romance works because they share a passion that creates a deep connection between them. And if heated correctly, this connection will only deepen and grow. Their generosity to each other and genuine joy in showering each other with praise and affection help keep their romance fresh and attractive, and they actively maintain the sensual element of their relationship. Their openness to each other is the secret to their successful romance, making them one of the most iconic and healthy couples on television. After all, we could all learn a thing or two from TV’s weirdest, creepiest couple.

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